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Oct 08 2012

My Life as a Judgmental Food Server

My Life as a Judgmental Food ServerI’m not going to lie; there was time when I made judgments about the people I was serving. At the time, I worked at a well known steakhouse as a Food Server. While I did my job to the best of my ability—it didn’t stop me from being critical of the people who frequented the restaurant.

The judgments I passed on the customers had to do specifically with the abundance of soda with which I would watch them partake. This was during the years when “free refills” were becoming the new norm.

When I was a child, IF my parents allowed my brothers and I to enjoy a soda with our meal, (and, yes, the “if” is in CAPS) we had to sip it very slowly to make it last the entire meal. We were allowed one soda, because an additional soda would have to be repurchased.

Working in the steakhouse, I watched parents who allowed their children to drink soda quickly and then get three or four refills during their dining experience. All because it was “free”. It bothered me, and I spoke about it to other Food Servers saying, “Just because the soda is free doesn’t mean you need to drink a liter.”  There were times I wanted to tell the parent at the table, “No, I’m sorry your child may not have another soda. He’s needs to drink some water.”

I’m so thankful that God doesn’t look at me through that lens when it comes to His sovereign Grace.

There are days—heck, there are meals—where I am in need of God’s Grace moment after moment. I cannot seem to get enough. I am so thankful that He doesn’t look at me and say, “No, I’m sorry, my child…you may not have any more Grace. You need to read some scripture.”

His Grace is truly abundant and it doesn’t run out. There are free refills because of the sacrifice made by his son, Jesus Christ. His blood covers our sins—every moment of every day. God wants to stretch us, and He longs for us to be growing and engaging with others along that Spiritual journey, and He will continue to pour out Grace and fill our cups along the way.

“And if by grace, then it cannot be based on works; if it were, grace would no longer be grace.” Romans 11:6

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  1. Christopher Long

    Well put, Jacquelyn. A valuable reminder to us all!
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  2. Dwayne Anton

    Thanks for your honest truth. if we become like you !
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  3. Sylvia R

    Oh, how that thought blesses me—of unlimited refills of grace! I’m gonna remember that one! Thanks!

  4. Mindy

    “I am so thankful that He doesn’t look at me and say, “No, I’m sorry, my child…you may not have any more Grace. You need to read some scripture.”

    hahaa! :)
    so true and well said!
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  5. Zinedine

    Yeah God is pretty cool dude aint he? Gives all this signs we 99% ignore and realize later how f..stupid we were.
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  6. Analyne Josphat

    I love the analogy. God’s grace is limitless. I wonder what it would have been if there was a limit to it. Anyways to much soda ain’t cool.
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  7. Anton

    i could do with a steak right now
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